Your Parenting Shapes Your Child’s Self-Esteem: Be Their Safe Space
Ever wonder why some kids are so self-assured, while others are filled with self-doubt? One of the largest factors behind that disparity is parenting. Not only does your parenting shape your child's self-esteem, but it also guides behaviour. Most importantly, when you establish a safe emotional space, your child learns to trust in themselves. In plain language: Children with confidence are made, not born. What is Self-Esteem and Why is it Important? Self-esteem is your child's inner feeling of value for how competent, worthwhile, and accepted they feel. Children with high self-esteem can: Experiment with new challenges Recover from failure ...
4 Ways to Introduce New Environments to Children with Special Needs.
Introduction:  At Starlit, our shadow teachers introduce new environments to children with special needs through sensitivity, planning, and a deep understanding of their unique needs. Sudden changes or unfamiliar settings can easily become overwhelming, leading to anxiety or sensory overload. However, with the right strategies, transitions can be made smoother and more comfortable. By creating a sense of predictability and safety, caregivers, special educators, shadow teachers etc can help children with special needs explore and adapt to new spaces with greater confidence and ease. The following are four effective strategies to support this process thoughtfully and respectfully.  1.Preparing them beforehand-Before ...
6 Effective Ways to Teach Self – Regulation to Children 
What is Self - Regulation? Self - regulation, as defined by Andrea bell is "control  (of oneself) by oneself". (GoodTherapy.org, 2016). Being a valuable ability, in self regulation, people can  utilize it to manage specific emotional responses and bodily actions under distress. Furthermore, it enables people to maintain their attention to the task and concentrate under difficult circumstances. (Felton, 2022)  Self-regulation isn't innate and takes time, practice, and guidance to develop. Some people struggle with it because they can't figure out what makes them feel less stressed. Some people may have trouble when their routine is disturbed. A lot of ...
5 Ways to encourage Social Interaction for Children
For many of us , conversations are effortless. These skills have developed over the years through engaging with society. However, for many adults and children dealing with psychological concerns , social interaction can be difficult and frustrating.  Children with certain psychological and behavioural concerns are often observed to have difficulties initiating and maintaining conversations. This hinders a child's opportunity to develop meaningful relationships around him/her, in turn hindering their social development and performance in school.  However, this reluctance to engage socially is often misread. It could be possible that some children would want to engage socially,but their insufficient communication skills stop them from ...
Building Self Confidence with Neurodiverse Children 
"If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves." -Thomas Alva Edison Every child is different and unique in their own way. Confidence is a key which helps individuals learn and grow. However, Neurodiverse children may face challenges developing self confidence as compared to neurotypical children. It requires patience and kindness in order to teach them about it. In a world where they are constantly seen as different, it is crucial to acknowledge their individuality and guide them to grow. Here are a few ways in which we can help a child develop ...